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Can we change our destiny?

My answer is yes! Our future is not set in stone! In fact, we are creating our future moment after moment. Our present situation is the result of our past deeds. And our present decisions and actions are setting the direction of our future. We make our decisions and actions according to our thinking patterns, memories, experiences, knowledge, personal likes and dislikes. All these things are just “skills” we have learned from our close relatives, teachers and society. If we are going through the life without deeper analysis, why we are as we are, why we did some decision, then is our behaviour predictable and also our future is predictable. Read More…


What is a self-respect? Who respect the self? Someone, who simply likes herself/himself. He or she is totally ok with himself or herself, all the time. It sounds logical and easy. But in fact, it is not. To have a self-respect and like oneself is not about being in love with one's appearance in the mirror, special abilities and talents we possess or life success at work as a company director! The self-respect has nothing to do with the degree of a personal success. Neither is build on the comparing ourselves with others (and realising, that I am better and that means I am very important personality). Such comparing can be tricky. It gives you happiness, when you are better than others. But what happens, if someone else is better than you? Success in life and comparing with others are things, which are increasing our self-esteem, which is something different. Self-esteem is based on being in love with what we have achieved or can achieve in future. Self-respect is given. We simply have it or not. With self-respect, we like ourselves just as we are and we don't need to add something more. We are aware of our strengths and weaknesses and they are not making us happy or unhappy. It is an attitude or state of mind. Read More…

Real forgiveness and Love

We all know very well, what is the meaning of the word forgiveness. But we somehow don’t know, how to practice it. For me, to forgive is a decision, which is against our ego, therefore it is difficult to do!

Here is an example:
Somebody close to you was hurting and mortifying you again and again. Therefore you cannot and also do not want to forgive him. It hurts you so much, that you think about it all the time. This thought controls you completely! This issue disturbs your sleep, energy and you feel weak and alone. Our present life is ruined because of the past! In fact, we don’t want this, we don’t want to suffer anymore, but don’t know, how to do that!
Try to think in peace, how could this all happen? Could you possibly, unconsciously contribute to this situation? Read More…

Reality as a perfect illusion

Many people ask again and again this question:"How do you know that there are some other worlds or realities? Where is the proof?"
The most people believe only what they can see, touch or feel. We cannot show or prove the existence of other realities in a way people want! How can you see beyond this reality with eyes or ears created to sense only this material world? It is impossible. The spiritual truth is surprising and completely different from what people think or believe. This world, which we supposed to be real, is in fact an illusion. What we perceive as real is the Idea of God Almighty, which takes form of what we see, hear and feel. We can realise this only when we are able to observe everything from distance and not to identify with our ego. This realisation comes after changing perception and point view, how we interpret, what we experience. There is one beautiful story about this topic. I offer you here a shorter version of the original story, which can be found in the book Yoga Vasistha written by Swami Venkatesananda: Read More…

How to start with magic?

Start with magic
Quite often, we receive this kind of request: “Hello, I want to start practising magic, but I don’t know where to start… I’ve read couple of sites… but haven’t still found the adequate answer… I seek for guidance… can you help me?”
First prerequisite for Magic is self-discipline and inner balance! One cannot do successful magic without discipline. If an adept cannot control his/her thoughts and emotions, energy cannot flow properly. The magic of such person won’t create desired results, but it will strengthen adept’s unbalance. Misaligned people full of passions and anger should not try to deal with Magic, they will never succeed. Magic will, on the contrary, amplify their weaknesses and bad qualities!
Our experience has shown us, that it is necessary to start with the work on oneself. Read More…